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Category Archives: parenting
Tuesday Musings: Our Child’s Birthday
Our beloved older daughter would have been thirty years old today. Alexis Jordan Berner-Coe. Early on, it felt like a big name for such a tiny child. She was always the smallest in her class, the smallest on her team, … Continue reading
Monday Musings: Nesting (Redux) and Writing
Back in early January, with snow falling on our bare trees and the brisk cold of a northeastern winter defining our days, I wrote a post for this blog about “Nesting.” The title referred to what Nancy and I had … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Grief, kids, parenting, Politics, Writing, Writing Life
Tagged blogging, D.B. Jackson, David B. Coe, editing, emotional health, family, grief, kids, mental health, moving, parenting, writing, writing life
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Monday Musings: Thoughts After Visiting My Kid
Last week, I flew out to Colorado to visit, Erin. Now, it goes without saying that I will leap at any chance to have time with my Peanut. I don’t need excuses to visit. But in this case, we had … Continue reading
Posted in Family, History, kids, parenting, Politics, travel
Tagged blogging, Cheeto Fuck-nuts, D.B. Jackson, David B. Coe, DEI, family, history, homophobia, kids, parenting, politics, racism, sexism, systemic racism
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Monday Musings: A Little Piece of Italy
Last April, after a grief-filled winter, and a previous fall that was more difficult than I could possibly describe, Nancy and I went to Italy for three weeks — a long-delayed trip that had once been intended as a celebration … Continue reading
Wednesday Musings: Big, Big News!
Yes, I’ve been quiet for a while. Things are okay. Really. More than okay, actually. But Nancy and I have been hella busy. With travel, with family stuff. But most of all with the big news that is the subject … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Friendship, Grief, Music, parenting, Writing Life
Tagged blogging, D.B. Jackson, David B. Coe, death, family, friendship, grief, kids, life issues, marriage, New York, parenting, politics, Tennessee, writing career
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Monday Musings: Checking In, With Further Thoughts On Grief
I’ve been traveling a lot this summer — hence my inconsistency when it comes to posting. Generally the travel has gone well, and visits with friends and family have been wonderful. Whether in personal settings or professional ones, I have … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Grief, kids, parenting, Writing Life
Tagged blogging, cancer, D.B. Jackson, David B. Coe, emotional health, family, grief, kids, memories, mental health, parenting
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Monday Musings: Forlorn On The Fourth Of July
We have a fun July 4th celebration in our little town. It’s a university town, and a somewhat affluent one at that, especially when compared with the surrounding communities. And so we attract a lot of visitors. There are games … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Friendship, Fun, kids, parenting, Politics
Tagged blogging, Cheeto Fuck-nuts, D.B. Jackson, David B. Coe, democracy, family, founders, Fourth of July, friends, history, holidays, Joe Biden, kids, memories, parenting, politics
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Monday Musings: Very Special Tattoos
While our older daughter, Alex, was sick with cancer, she continued to live her life with passion and exuberance, in defiance of the disease, the treatments, the fear, the injustice of a cruel and arbitrary illness. She traveled, she spent … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Friendship, kids, parenting, Uncategorized
Tagged blogging, cancer, D.B. Jackson, David B. Coe, family, grief, kids, mental health, parenting
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Monday Musings: Contemplating Marriage At Thirty-Three Years
Thirty-three years ago, on Memorial Day Weekend in 1991, Nancy and I were married. We were living in California at the time, doing our graduate work at Stanford, which is where we met. We had a wonderful weekend, which included … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Friendship, kids, parenting
Tagged blogging, D.B. Jackson, David B. Coe, family, friendship, kids, love, marriage, memories, parenting, weddings
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Monday Blues: The Hardest Birthday
Yes, another post about our daughter and our loss. A part of me shies from this, wonders if I have written about her too much. “Write something upbeat,” I tell myself. “Something funny, something — anything — that isn’t about … Continue reading
Posted in Family, kids, parenting
Tagged birthdays, blogging, D.B. Jackson, David B. Coe, death, family, grief, kids, mental health, parenting
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